So I was once arguing with someone about single-parent households.
They brought up that having both parents in the home is the best option for the child. I argued that if one of the parents is abusive, it's in the best interest of the child to have a single-parent household instead.
They then demanded studies/sources to back up my claim, and berated me when I answered "Are you demanding that I provide scientific proof that not having an abuser in the home is best for the child?"
The neglect, parental addictions, childhood sexual abuse, income insecurity, and unwillingness to test for, let alone treat mental health issues only made me more of a rugged individual!
You say that like most people would agree with you. I'm my experience, most people think people are homeless because they're lazy and/or lack values or something
I had this experience, when I was a kid I was constantly told I didn't understand because I was a kid. I was insulted, belittled, taught that all my thoughts were "wrong". Not realizing I was being raised by stunted, adult-sized kids. It's not entirely their fault, the generation before theirs was even harsher, and so on, backwards in time.
Hopefully we can begin to break the cycle. Today kids have outlets and access to information about their situation, for example they can ask ChatGPT, "What should I do when my mommy calls me dumb?"
ChatGPT's response, "It's not okay for anyone, including your mom, to call you dumb. If this happens, it's important to talk to her about how it makes you feel and express that it's hurtful. It might be a good idea to seek support from someone you trust, like another family member or a counselor, to help address the situation. Remember, you are not defined by anyone else's words or opinions."
Damn, that certainly would've helped me.
There are varying levels of abuse, preventing isolation so that warning signs can be identified and catching it early is the best remedy I can think of, but I'm no expert. I'm just an adult-sized kid doing my best.
While it certainly isn’t news to us today, every additional observation that supports a theory is valuable, especially for theories about deep-rooted and hard-to-prove causality.
We can’t just go out traumatizing children “for science” to find out what the incident rate of mental health as it relates to different traumas.
It's basically an academic disagreement between two schools of thought. The behaviorist like models in psychology can be at odds with the biochemical imbalance model of psychiatry.
Studies like this help expand treatment options since the biochemical imbalance theory has gained significant popularity and awareness in recent years. Not everyone struggling has a chemical imbalance and not all mental illnesses are caused from trauma. Some have both. Nuance is king with sort of issue
Full agreement. I seem to have biochemical and trauma based issues myself. I can’t medicate the pain away, but my adhd requires a holistic, chemicals included, response.