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Do you ever worry that you're secretly a psychopath that unknowingly manipulates people around you?
  • Are you capable of feeling guilt or remorse? If so you are probably not a psychopath. If not you might have some traits. In any case you might want to see a professional.

    Also autism is often mistaken for some degree of psychopathy. As an autist I have personal experience with this.

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  • Sometimes it feels like this but often I'll just put on a face and pretend to be listening but really I'm still halfway focusing on the problem I'm solving. I rarely really hear what people say to me when I'm like that. Just nod and smile ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

  • App that supports pagination

    So I’ve been using Voyager (wefwef) for a while and it’s pretty good and gets lots of updates. However one thing I’m really missing from Apollo is the option to disable endless scrolling (forcing me to click next/load more). That feature really helped me to avoid doom scrolling and I think it should be in every app because our reptile brains just aren’t equipped to fight an infinity of memes.

    Does any of the other apps out there support that feature?

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    Feddit.dk @feddit.dk MildlyArdvark @feddit.dk
    Barsel og pension

    Min kæreste og jeg er blevet enige om, at jeg betaler noget ind til hendes pension i forbindelse med hendes barsel. Man kan altid diskutere, om det bør være partnerens ansvar at kompensere for, at vi som samfund ikke sørger for, at den ammende/primære forsørger ikke bliver sat bagud pensionsmæssigt, når de vælger at få børn og ikke kan arbejde imens, men sådan er det nu engang, og da jeg tjener rigeligt er det ikke et problem for os.

    For hende handler det tillige om tryghed i fald vi skulle gå fra hinanden en dag eller hvis jeg kradser af (vi er ikke gift og har ikke umiddelbart planer om det). Det giver også fint mening for mig.

    Men det virker økonomisk temmeligt åndssvagt. Jeg har jo allerede betalt (top)skat af de penge, og hun kommer til at betale skat af dem igen når hun får dem udbetalt som pension. Så det prikker til min økonomiske fornuft at gøre det på den måde.

    Så mit spørgsmål: er der andre måder at gøre det på, som giver bedre økonomisk mening, og som samtidigt tager hensyn til hendes tryghedsfølelse?

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