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I had an extraordinary experience today, but it didn't relate to a hobby or career or political topic. I tried to find an appropriate community but I guess I don't have the right terms. Where can one turn to share triumphs, defeats, and sacred moments?

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What sandwich do you want your partner to make for you?

In some 2000-10s comedy, "bish, make me a sandwich" is a common punchline. It begs the question, what goes in the sandwich?

As a follow up, how does that differ from the sandwich you might make for yourself?

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How I see myself sometimes when I'm feeling dysphoric
  • Heya, friend. I identified strongly with your inner monologue, if not from the same cause. I'm peri menopausal. I hope it brings you a bit of comfort to hear that many other women are having the same thoughts and feelings.

    If I can share what's helped me: I went back to a strategy I learned in my adolescent years... Sometimes confidence breeds confidence. I do my best to practice it until it becomes internalized and "exuded."

    As you move through your journey, know some old lady in Baltimore is rooting for you.

  • How I see myself sometimes when I'm feeling dysphoric
  • Heya, friend. I identified strongly with your inner monologue, if not from the same cause. I'm peri menopausal. I hope this brings you a bit of comfort to hear that many other women are having the same thoughts and feelings.

    If I can share what's helped me: I went back to a strategy I learned in my adolescent years... Sometimes confidence breeds confidence. I do my best to practice it until it becomes internalized and "exuded."

    As you move through your journey, know some old lady in Baltimore is rooting for you.

  • Advice wanted for salty pizza

    I make a traditional pesto and use it for all kinds of recipes. I adore this pesto for soups, pasta, veggies.

    However, when I use it for pizza, I get this weird paradox where everything is too salty, but still feels like it needs salt. For toppings I use fresh mozzarella, roasted red peppers and parboiled asparagus. I don't season them to offset the saltiness.

    Any suggestions on how to make this pizza perfect?

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    Movies and TV Shows @lemm.ee WndyLady @lemm.ee
    Need help finding a movie

    Tonight I turned on the movie Elf thinking it was another movie entirely. Now I can't, for the life of me, figure out what it was that I intended to watch.

    My clearest recollection is of a red car in a chase among an impossibly perfect green field, obviously on a sound stage. The movie was quirky, artful. I thought it featured Zooey Deschanel, but nothing on her IMDB list fits.

    I thought it was a movie about corporate actors taking over the North Pole, but maybe it was all a fever dream.

    Anyone have ideas what I am looking for?

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    Looking for a YA book from my youth
  • This is a possibility, although the descriptions I can find are pretty limited. One mentions that the protagonist is a mall-rat. Any guess on when the book is set?

    Edit: This was written in 96, which would have been too late. Thanks for the suggestion, though!

  • Looking for a YA book from my youth

    It's not much to go on, but I'm hoping someone either remembers or has better Google-fu than I do.

    Some time in the late 80s or early 90s I read a YA book about a teen-ish girl in the Aluetian Islands. My most vivid memory is of her description of crabs, calling some "Jimmies," and going into extraordinary detail about the fishing process. I have the shadow of a memory that she was the first girl/woman to embark on fishing.

    That's all I have to go on. Ring any bells?

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    Scavengers Reign
  • I watched this over my Thanksgiving break and am so in love. There are so many themes and ideas to dissect. I wish I could find a viewing party or discussion group about it. That's how I found your post.

    I'm no great thinker, but I'd love to hear others thoughts on what I see this series positing. Are there always bigger predators? When can you trust your understanding? What does survival look like, and how do you know you have achieved it? What really drives us, biology or intelligence?

  • Texas cops arrest 11-year-old honors student and put him in solitary confinement for three days
  • I work in with traumatized teens. There are times where they need to be isolated from their peers, but I agree that solitary is not therapeutic. Research and experience easily demonstrate that.

    The reality is, though, that these systems are so underfunded and understaffed that these detrimental tactics are the only viable option.

    I'm not defending the practice. I would never work in a system that uses solitary confinement with adolescents, but I have the luxury of choice.

  • Finally, some real news
  • When I was in high school, I hung out with a guy named "Gooch." Curiosity got the better of me, and I asked why everyone called him Gooch. Turns out, it was his last name, not a nickname as I'd assumed. No lie: I told him with a name like that, he'd end up as a supreme court justice or junky.

  • Amazon coupons: what's the story?

    Every third product I search for has a check box coupon. Is there any downside to accepting those offers? Why not just list the item at the cheaper price?

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    Trouble posting pictures

    I've gone through the prompts to attach an image from my phone's gallery to this post. I suspect that it won't be there, just like my recent attempts to post to pics@lemmy.world. Is this an issue with the app or my instance?

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    Viewing my own posts

    I can't see my own posts in my profile. I guess that's a side effect of my settings to hide all read posts. Still, this is confusing and causes challenges.

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    Help me thank my dad*

    Here's a low stakes question to start the community.

    My father adopted me when he married my mother forty years ago. Unfortunately, she died only seven years later. Together they had two of their own. He's not an overly affectionate person, but in my adulthood he's been incredibly supportive.

    Recently, he took a week off of work (a BFD for him) and flew halfway across the US to take care of me and my animals after a serious surgery. I'm trying to write a thank you note, but everything I write seems clinical or soppy. I've even tried chat GPT, but they're as awful and stilted as I am.

    So here's the thing I want advice on... How do I thank him for continously choosing to be my dad for the last ~40 years?

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    Help needed. Google is failing me.

    I have an A53, running Android 13. I've recently noticed that if I uninstall an app and the reinstall it, it still has login credentials. That leads me to believe that uninstall isn't really deleting all the associated data.

    How do I truly purge all the data from these apps from my phone?

    I tried to Google the issue, but all the answers wanted me to download additional software, which seems antithetical to my goal.

    (Please keep it simple; I'm not so good with tech.)

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    I'm a social worker, not IT

    I'm trying to keep up with the times, but I'm an over the hill social worker. I signed up for lemm.ee and linked it to the app Jerboa. Now, however, I'm supposed to tell the Admin that server 0.17.4 is too low. Who is the Admin? How do I fix it?

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