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Fiction audiobooks you've enjoyed?
  • I recently listened to Daisy Jones and the Six and the audiobook was incredible. The book was written as a series of interviews, which worked great as an audiobook. There were definitely times I got a bit distracted but it didn't impede my understanding too much. It does take a bit to absorb all the characters, so you'd probably want to listen uninterrupted for the first ~hour.

    Killers of a Certain Age is another good one. Written about mature women assassins. It's a fun thriller and an easy listen.

    Final rec is any of Ken Follett's Kingsbridge series as read by John Lee. They're long as hell, but straightforwardly told. There's something I just love about how John read them, too.

  • What single item improved the quality of your life over you got it? (Buyed it/got as present/made it)
  • Blundstones. I live in a coastal city that's wet (but rarely snowy) the vast majority of the year. Having rain-resistant shoes that are comfortable AND durable has been a game changer.

    And if I can mention a second: A proper, long raincoat. Combined with good shoes, I'm able to tolerate the weather here much better than when I'd first moved to this city and relied on sneakers + regular jackets.

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  • I'm thinking of Jira right now. October 1 rolls around and a comment from yesterday is suddenly "last month". Very often not helpful. I just want to see when it was made!

  • What advice would you give a young adult about to move out?
  • One I haven't seen mentioned here is familiarize yourself with tenancy laws in the place you want to move to. It is always good to know your rights, and with landlords these days, you have to be as savvy as you can. A lot will come from experience, but knowing what they're allowed to do or not do is priceless.

  • What do you eat and drink every day?
  • Steel cut oats boiled with fruit, sweetened with maple syrup, and served with some type of dairy. I always use cinnamon, cloves, nutmeg, and ground ginger!

    Fruit is either:

    • Cut apples
    • Frozen blueberries or strawberries

    Dairy is either:

    • A drizzle of milk
    • A couple tablespoons of plain greek yogurt
  • Do you get seasonal affective disorder?
  • I have regular ole bipolar disorder but I find that I tend to have depressive mood episodes more often in the depths of winter, when it's darkest and coldest. Before I was medicated, I routinely blanked out basically from December to February.

  • I've been blocking ads for so long that actually seeing them feels perverse
  • Does anyone have recommendations on how to block ads on Android without rooting? I've tried AdAway but it doesn't seem to be terribly effective. I'm pretty tied into Chrome and would prefer not to change browsers but I understand I might have to.

  • YouTube Music rolling out Now Playing redesign with comments
  • It's sad that music UX is adopting these principles, tbh. Music is inherently a long(er) form experience. It deserves separate treatment. The last thing I personally want is for music apps to try to suck my attention as much as text- and video-based apps do. I know I'm fighting against the app economy headwinds in that desire, but I still dare to dream...

  • YouTube Music rolling out Now Playing redesign with comments
  • I'll have to check it out. How is Tidal for music discovery? I found that GPM was great for helping me find artists with the "I'm feeling lucky" feature. YTM hasn't scratched that itch.

    Part of what's kept me on YTM is that I'm still grandfathered into the GPM pricing, and I really like the ad-free feature for the rare occasions I am on YouTube. But—I could deal with giving that up!

  • YouTube Music rolling out Now Playing redesign with comments
  • I definitely don't want to see how many people like a song I'm listening to or what they have to say about it. I want my music experience to be more personal. I will just go to normal YouTube if I want to discuss something.

    Ugh, I still miss GPM so much. YTM is worse to me in just about every way.

  • Fog bank rolling into the Halifax Harbour

    Taken by boat. Slightly visible are some cranes at the shipyard. Usually you'd also see all the Downton skyline. Very cool to watch this roll in!

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    How do you know when it's just a rough patch vs time to end a romantic relationship?

    How do you know when it's just a rough patch vs time to end a romantic relationship? I know it's quite personal and varies by relationship, so I'm more interested in folks' experiences than in a general rule or standard. (Although if you do have a rule of thumb to share, would love to hear it too.)

    Note: I'm not speaking of abusive situations, but of relationships with ordinary troubles.

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    Technical or professional writing communities?

    I'm looking for communities or magazines for technical/professional writers. Please let me know if you're aware of any. :)

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    What is lemmy.ca's stance on defederating from Threads or other Meta-owned products?
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    Any interest in a Halifax/NS/Maritimes themed book club?

    I'm blatantly borrowing an idea I saw in the Montreal community...

    Would anyone be interested in a virtual book club featuring books set in Halifax, or perhaps the Maritimes more broadly? A thread could be opened and run for a set time (maybe a month), after which a new book would be chosen.

    A couple of possibilities off the top of my head. Both are available through HPL and the Libby app.

    If a few folks are interested, I would be happy to facilitate the first thread and come up with some discussion questions. 😄

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    HRM council to consider a plan that will fix everything | The Coast

    While "fix everything" is a bit ambitious, this seems like a step in the right direction. I'm not sure I trust our current council to work toward such a plan with any sort of urgency, considering the numerous delays on something as basic as tap-to-pay transit... but shoot for the moon, I guess.

    What do you think?

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    Sid Meier's Civilization @lemmy.ca gaydarless @lemmy.ca
    What's your preferred game setup for Civ 6?

    I started playing Civ 6 on console about a year ago, and I've finally acquired all the expansion packs and additional leaders. (While I'm very excited about it, my SO's response when they see me playing is usually "Ugh, not that CORN GAME" again 😂)

    Now that I have all possibilities unlocked, my goal is to find a combination of game rules, options, and modes to give myself a good challenge while keeping it fun.

    So far, I typically do Gathering Storm rules and enable Secret Societies and Heroes & Legends. Occasionally I'll do Dramatic Ages. Barbarian Clans are a must. And usually I disable Diplomatic Victory.

    What are your preferences? Do you have an "optimal" game setup you like to play? Are there any cool custom games that I should try out?

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