jlyndby @ jlyndby @lemmy.world Posts 14Comments 57Joined 3 wk. ago
The thing is idk what to do, cause they can claim all the sounds are "normal" or an accident. For example today at around 1230am I heard them screetch their chair extremely loudly and suddenly twice in a row but spaced apart by like a minute. It was most definitely not a normal chair screetching noise as usual throughout the day. Then again they made several banging noises after until about 1am (but I'm worried my phone isn't picking the noises up).
Them again they woke me at 5am and I could tell they were trying to.
While yesterday technically I'm not sure the exact time but it was around 8am (end of quiet hour) where they slammed the door into the frame approx 3-4 times just loudly enough to wake me but not loudly enough to prove it was on purpose
This is all after I tried to be as quiet as possible all day.
The police here are absolutely worthless and disgraceful
I tried speaking to other neighbours and as I said everyone already seems to have been turned against me and think that I am the one making the noise.
I tried speaking to the property manager about a basic issue, not even this, and hr just interrupted me, spoke over me, argued with me over shit thats not true, dismissed me and without saying it told me he can't help me
I honestly don't know how I can do that. For example this morning they pushed the door against the frame like 4 times, just loudly enough to wake me. also pretty sure it was after quiet hours ended (8am) so it's technically allowed. Plus I can't prove they did it to bother me.
I've tried turning up my tv before when I used to live here and it just made everything worse to where they woke me up in the middle of the night slamming the doors just enough.. and this was their usual cause their kids wake them so it doesn't affect them negatively
If I leave music on they'll immediately complain and it'll be obvious I'm doing it to bother them
They've gone as far to terrorize me psychologically by circling my property (car) outside which I can't prove because what they're doing is technically legal, but they're going around my car and between it. Now they're doing it to other cars too after I reported them so that they have plausible deniability. This doesn't affect them negatively either cause either way they are in the parking lot for at least 1 hour each day with their kids, literally walking the stroller in circles around the parking (they have no life and are too lazy to go elsewhere cause the parking lot is most convenient cause it's all smooth and they can just go in circles)
Clearly didn't read my post
It's fucking useless. They're just gonna use plausible deniability
Umm how does that work? He'd have to be home right?
Didn't ask
Well anyway, I messaged him 2 days ago, hey are you the landlord of apartment BLA BLA and he never responded.... Guess he doesn't gaf
Are you trying to gaslight a random person you don't know
I tried that but they always find a way to turn everyone against me. They hate my guts
Idk. Like, interpersonal psychopaths don't scare me as much cause I can always just ghost them for the most part.
My issue is with workplace ones (cause it's hard to find a good job) and also with the ones in my apartment complex. There's no effing way it can be dealt with I'm just screwed.
They do different things. For example if I make zero noise all day then turn the tv on in the evening, they will then knock on my wall but like 30 secs to a min later. Or if I turn my tv on they'll watch their shit too, but it'll be too quiet to pick up so I'd have to turn my tv off, then they will turn theirs off. Etc etc etc
I can’t… because if it’s just a sound recording there’s no way of yelling who is making the noise, and they do it randomly/unpredictably ENOUGH that I can barely ever catch it on video, and my phone can’t just have video on all day.
I can't.. because if it's just a sound recording there's no way of yelling who is making the noise, and they do it randomly/unpredictably ENOUGH that I can barely ever catch it on video, and my phone can't just have video on all day.
I'm scared and idk what colour would work.. maybe like a very dark blue accent wall for the bedroom?
Idk I've literally never had a somewhat normal guy do that.. one was a legit sociopath who was really cruel and evil .. like just ghosting for days I've always had problems with
The other was extremely bipolar and took me through the worst rollercoaster relationship ever where the whole time he was "unsure" about me
I want to but il have to set one up in every room idek how that would work
There's tons of stuff it still gives me anxiety it's wide and open and white
Thanks. Honestly the more I think about it the more ready to move on I am. I can't think of any good reason someone would be this inconsistent.
I don't know, this whole thing is just a trainwreck. If he does message me to hang out I might say yes because I'm lonely but I know I shouldn't and he doesn't have what I need