"I really wish people would stop judging me for being part of the 'Pro-Genocide Club' [actual consequences of my
(In)action], I'M not pro-genocide! [My intention were pure]"
I don't know what to tell you if you can't see the brazen hypocrisy.
Here's my entire premise: if you're going to be setting purity checks, make sure you pass them first. That's it, you can try distract with "others fail it worse" all you want, but it's just a distraction. I'll try keep you on track though:
Pug chose both to support genocide and be judged for their failure of attempt at moral superiority. Stop defending them, you're only making Pug look worse.
You can't change where or how you're born, but you can change what instance you're on with almost no impact to yourself. Maybe spend ten, fifteen minutes on copying your subscriptions over manually. It's like changing out of a T-shirt with really unfortunate text you couldn't read before putting it on, one of the greatest benefits of federation.