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What is anti-propaganda?

My mother, born, raised, and still lives in Norway, was anti-mask during COVID and refused to take the vaccine because of micro-robots (and the scary 5G towers), so we all know where she stands in certain topics. She also believes that Zelenskyy is the reason for Russia invading Ukraine...

Anyhoo, I was talking to her then other day, and she told me that I need to stop reading anti-propaganda. I laughed and asked if she could explain it, which she, of course, could not, but she said it's a wording being used online all the time. I don't frequent the sites she does, and I've known she's been reading conspiracies for at least 10 years, but anti-propaganda? Does words not have meaning anymore?

If you ask me, anti-propaganda is facts, but hey, I might be wrong, considering English is my second language.

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  • I don't believe most people that go down this road are going to listen to any logic. Trying to combat it by telling them they are wrong and why just makes them dig their heels in even more.

    You can ask empathetic questions and try to learn what brought her here. A lot of people start a normal amount of right wing, and then the internet feeds them more and more far right stuff and this happens. There's a sense of community and belonging to these spaces.

    If you care about her and want to continue the relationship, ask that neither of you bring up politics and just talk about your lives, see if she has anything good going on, and encourage local activities if possible.

    Channel 5 did a movie called Dear Kelly about a guy who went full conspiracy after losing his house and I believe custody of his kids. In the movie they talk about past trauma leading to this obsession.

    Try to be compassionate if you can. It can be very difficult depending on the person and the existing relationship but I think it's the only real way forward. Alternatively I also think if they are abusive or too over the top just cutting ties with them works too.

    It can be very frustrating, but I hope it works out. Good luck!

  • I managed to logic my parents out of one thing.

    My parents actually asked me if it was possible that the vaccines contained 5G micro robots.

    After taking a moment to maintain my composure and put on my "pretend I wasn't asked a stupid question and answer seriously" face, I asked them to take out their phone.

    When the phone was in their hand, I asked them to consider the fact that it must be charged every day to keep working, and that the vast majority of the size of the phone was taken up by the battery. Then I pointed out that a device small enough to be injected wouldn't have enough power to still be on when it left the needle.

    Luckily I didn't have to go further than that.

    I think that's the only time I've had any success pounding logic into them. I think the problem is they can't think of me as anything but a child, except where computers are concerned.

    They paid for my computer science degree, and they know I've been working in IT for 32 years, and I answer all their computer questions. So, if the subject is computer-related, I'm their expert. Anything else and I'm just a deluded child.

    I haven't tried talking to my mom about the SSA COBOL AI rewrite yet. I'm not sure if she heard about it or if she did whether she understood enough to even be concerned enough to ask me.

  • Technically, no propaganda of any sort at all.

    Counter propaganda or anti-propaganda is just differently angled propaganda. You cannot fix propaganda with more propaganda.

    If you want to understand your mom, you need to see or read what she sees. Just telling her she is wrong is not going to help. Repeating that she is wrong is just not going to help.

    Plus as an adult that she is, you might not be able to dissuade her. Perhaps, you may have to simply not touch the topic when with her.

    When I was younger, I naively used to think that if I had the facts or Academic papers or research to prove point XYZ on my side, that I would be able to argue valiantly against some people I used to know. Ha, I was so silly. I could literally point or give the proof to my arguments on a silver platter, be empathetic about it, down to page numbers or exact quotes, and people would simply not even bother to read them, because they were certain they were right. Some people just want to be Right, not Correct. Due to such worldviews being driven not by fact but by emotion. Fear, anger, bias, lies by omission, but usually peppered with some facts here and there, etc. Hence you need to know where your mom is coming from. Takes patient and an open mind.

    Trying to change them, will just end up in damaging your current bonds. Do you want to risk that? Maybe over time. But just focus mostly on what you have and enjoy the time you have, over spending it arguing. Life is short enough as it is.

  • Just a wild guess here but maybe she meant propaganda that mostly incites people to oppose tendencies or groups rather than to support their own?

    Oh and facts can be propaganda too and often are... In a universe with infinite facts, the ones chosen to be presented vs the ones chosen not to, the way the fact is framed in discourse and what is being suggested by presenting it.. That's where propaganda lives.

    It's more comfortable to think propaganda is about lies. There are a lot of lies of course, but most important is what is assumed to be understood as common truth when sharing a message. Subtext is everything.

  • there is this great televsion show that was an offshoot of _DR _WHO__called Torchwood that dealt extensively with this subject in their final series where the people who want to take over the world hire a media consultant to not change the message from language to language, just the tone, certain phrases which change the meaning of something by occluding it with something comfortable.....classic advertising, but the point is the same, propaganda is ALWAYS intentional and directed, and some will ALWAYS be susceptible... thank you for coming to my propaganda for science fiction and especially DR WHO

    • ....in addition, there is this great scene in the movie DAVE_ where the guy sits with the cabinet in front of cameras and makes them explain stupid budget choices to save a children's shelter;propaganda dies when shown the light of truth and shames it away...

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