Skip Navigation
36 comments

  • It's "not something you should do without their enthusiastic consent".

    • But if I ask for their consent would they find it disturbing or what?

      Just for the record, folks, I'm not going to do it.

      Unless...

      • If my partner asked I'd say hell fucking no

        If she did it without asking we wouldn't be together after that, and she'd likely be facing a legal challenge that would inevitably get dismissed after Musk x-cretes that he "finds it hot"

      • But if I ask for their consent would they find it disturbing or what?

        Speaking for myself, I wouldn't have an issue if an SO wanted to make AI (or traditional art) pornography of me.

        But that seems like it'd be a personal thing, and I doubt that anyone here is likely to have a much-better picture of what your SO wants or doesn't than you. I think that if you guys have a solid relationship, that if you're not sure, you should at least be able to talk about something like this and your SO should be able to express their opinion on it. I mean, gotta be able to communicate in a relationship.

        If you do do it, I would suggest one thing --- if you make something, whether it uses conventional art techniques or AI or sculpt them or whatever and it differs in some way from their real life selves --- I imagine that they might take it as an indication that you'd prefer the virtual creation to them as they are. If you start fiddling with their body, have it deviate from its real-life form, maybe they worry that they don't look the way you'd like them to. If you put makeup on them, clothing that they don't wear, have them pose, whatever, even inadvertently --- and with AI image generation in 2025 in particular, it's hard to have perfect control over what gets produced --- they might take that as something that you want them to do.

      • Instead of asking randoms on the internet why don’t you talk to your SO?

  • That just sounds like giving personal details to a 3rd party that they might not be consenting of.

  • Without consent I'd find it creepy, with consent I'd find it creepy but accept that it was something my partner wanted to try that didn't particularly harm me personally. It would also depend on the AI's privacy policies.

  • 100% my own opinion as a 37y/o male who would never find myself in this scenario. This isn't a commentary on any other scenarios or sexual preferences except imagining myself in OP's presented scenario.

    1. Is your SO someone most people would consider a normal person?

    No - Then fuckin roll the dice.

    Yes w/o asking 1st - Then it's incredibly creepy if they find a porn of themselves in your possession and opens a can of worms about what means you used to make it and the integrity of that means to protect the created porn from being viewable by others.

    Yes w/asking 1st - Then prepare for an incredibly awkward conversation where you explain why you'd rather spend time making an AI porn of the person you're fucking instead of spending the time with them or actually romancing/fucking them. Even if they aren't completely turned off by this scenario then you still look like an ass for wanting to use AI to make porn of SO instead of just asking them to record your own together.

    1. Only non-wierd scenarios for this conversation to be brought up under:

    Long distance/extended periods of time away for each other.

    Disabilities where sex is off the table.

    SO already has public accessible media of themselves fucking.

36 comments