Totally agree with what you're saying, but I'd say that there's a difference between "judgement" and "feedback".
I'll give feedback that she's totally unreasonable, and she knows that I'm not judging her or thinking less of her for it. There's a mutual trust thing around feedback like that.
Not only say whatever, they address jealousy. They have a secure relationship, and both of them have moments of insecurity, maybe more so Bob, but they both address said insecurity and come back together.
Unfortunately for me, I thought that Bob and Linda portrayed something unrealistic or unreasonable. Because every time I felt insecure in my relationship, my ex would blame me, and then hang out with her guy friends I've never even heard before.
I love that they manage to be respectful of every character while still keeping it funny. It feels like quite an accomplishment to manage uplifting comedy like that. I feel like Joe Pera Talks With You is another rare gem in that same category.