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A cool guide for red flags during job interviews.
  • While it’s all fine and good to just say “hire the right people”, that’s a gross oversimplification.

    I'd say it's combination of chemistry and luck. I have one position that, thank god, it now filled with a really cool dude who took the job based on the flexibility it offers, but I've been here five years and had six people in that role before he came along. Then I have a lady who, on paper, didn't look very qualified, but she came across as confident and honest in her interview. I've promoted her three times in four years. All that was a combination of the interview chemistry plus a ton of luck.

    And yes, they are all indeed smarter than me in multiple ways! The other managers are insanely jealous of my team. I guess I, for once in my life, got lucky!

  • A cool guide for red flags during job interviews.
  • That's a fair point about SMART being exactly what some people may need to hear. I hadn't thought about it that way.

  • Europeans of Lemmy, what places in Europe should foreigners avoid at all cost?
  • Yeah for sure, avoid big groups of British English speaking dudes for sure (and some of my best friends are English and they would agree!)

  • Europeans of Lemmy, what places in Europe should foreigners avoid at all cost?
  • Fair enough!

    It's still possible, in my opinion, to visit as a "tourist" (I live in Haarlem now, so technically I'm a tourist when I go) and avoid all the trashy stuff. You can seek out the cool little neighborhoods like the Jordaan or de Pijp.

  • Europeans of Lemmy, what places in Europe should foreigners avoid at all cost?
  • Digitalprimate

    Oh simply be polite and most of all have a sense of your surroundings/situational awareness, i.e., don't get in the way. You probably want to spend as little time in the main "downtown" area (roughly central station to the Rokin) as possible.

    Although everyone under 80 years old speak near-native English (I exaggerate), you'll endear yourself by learning to say good morning, good evening, thanks, and please in Dutch and to start conversations by asking "Is English ok?" in Dutch.

    Basically just don't be a jerk and the native Amsterdamers will happily take your holiday money.

  • 12 countries push for EU crackdown on vapes
  • This bullshit just infuriations me. Nearly every country ALREADY HAS LAWS that prevent minors from buying vapes (and cigarettes, etc.) Just enforce the damn rules rather than turn two pack a day people back to two pack a day people and then have to pay for their cancer treatment.

    Jesus these fucks are dumb.

  • Europeans of Lemmy, what places in Europe should foreigners avoid at all cost?
  • Well, it's more like we don't want them to come here.

  • Little League Rule
  • And this is the real cynic in me, but the dad will be enthusiastic about going to Little Timmy's games, and in the end, that's probably all Little Timmy wants: some time with dad where dad's happy to be with him.

  • A cool guide for red flags during job interviews.
  • It's good and kind of you to explain SMART ...but let me tell you as exec management it's bullshit designed fulfull some other HR exec management's last HR course they took, or some obscure ESG requirement.

    I tell my people what needs doing, and then they *just do it *because they are far smarter than me at their own jobs and usually find a more efficient way, with better outcomes, than I could design. I set an overarching goal, they do the rest how they see fit.

    Hire the right people and you don't need corporate schemes like this.

  • Internet forums are disappearing because now it's all Reddit and Discord. And that's worrying.
  • Haven't been there in a decade despite having been there for a decade and helping many real people in real life from there, and I'd have to say: depends on who the target of the violence is and whether or not it's phased in the subjunctive mood.

  • Internet forums are disappearing because now it's all Reddit and Discord. And that's worrying.
  • Well you have just described Metafilter. I'm a liberal a lefty as can be, and eventually even I got tired of the drama and obvious virtue signaling. And at the end of the day, drama and less-than-appropriate virtue signaling were what the mods wanted.

  • Man who survived ebike fire that killed his family fights for change to UK law
  • Learned that a less-hard-way when I killed my battery charging it overnight. Thank god the stupid did not remain with me long when I found out why this was a very bad (as like the article) expensive idea.

  • America’s problem is massive inequality – not ‘woke’ educated elites
  • I'm going to presume you just kind of phrased this badly and not downvote you.

  • Lemmy.ml tankie censorship problem
  • This is a good answer and probably the right solution (still not 100% convinced defederating isn't, ultimately, going to be the answer though).

    But your Jane/Joe Average User doesn't look to see which instance that pr0n cute picture of a cat holding a teddy bear is on. They probably don't even understand the concept of different instances showing content from others. Hell I've been online since 1992 and it took me a couple of days to get my head around it when I joined.

    So I think we need some kind of step by step "If you see X, then do Y" sticked to the instances that care about this for the people who (like me) do care about this issue.

  • TRUMP GUILTY ON ALL 34 COUNTS
  • Can we use fire again to put down the rebellion, pretty please?

  • What did you buy that improved your life?
  • I will sound like a shrill, but I love everything they make. Even though the City Pack Pro X-Pac became, accidentally and relative to initial cost, the single most expensive bag I own due to my stupid brother.

    I live in Europe, and you have to pay big taxes on any imports by mail. So I asked my brother if I could mail to him and he’d mail it to me, like in the old days (20 years ago or so). Sure, he says no problem, when do you need it? I say not in a hurry but leaving for a trip in like three weeks, so if it made it here by then that would be nice.

    Two weeks later he texts me saying I owe him USD 120 for shipping. I said WTF? He sent it express, like an idiot. The bag costs about USD 239. So, ok fine it least I’ll have it for my trip.

    Nope. Three weeks later I call the UPS center. They got my bag, all right, but I owe EUR 135 in taxes and duties. My brother - who used to know how to do these things, insured it for USD 400 and wrote on the item description “brand new back pack.” That fuckwad (whom I love, but damn bro, you grew up stupid sometimes).

    Anyway even at that price it’s worth it, and it too has all the features you mention above + in X-Pac + with a contrasting interior color. I may have gone to their flag ship “store” (a tiny, tiny little store front) in SF and fanboy’ed for an hour or so before buying a small inside bag. And I may or may not have ordered two of their computer peripheral storage bags, one for me and one as a bribe/tribute to our head of IT…

    Anyway, ahem. It’s the ultimate combo between a carry on bag and an (largish) urban commuter bag. /Shrill, and if anyone from Aer is reading this, a discount code maybe?

  • What did you buy that improved your life?
  • I will sound like a shrill, but I love everything they make. Even though the City Pack Pro X-Pac became, accidentally and relative to initial cost, the single most expensive bag I own due to my stupid brother.

    I live in Europe, and you have to pay big taxes on any imports by mail. So I asked my brother if I could mail to him and he'd mail it to me, like in the old days (20 years ago or so). Sure, he says no problem, when do you need it? I say not in a hurry but leaving for a trip in like three weeks, so if it made it here by then that would be nice.

    Two weeks later he texts me saying I owe him USD 120 for shipping. I said WTF? He sent it express, like an idiot. The bag costs about USD 239. So, ok fine it least I'll have it for my trip.

    Nope. Three weeks later I call the UPS center. They got my bag, all right, but I owe EUR 135 in taxes and duties. My brother - who used to know how to do these things, insured it for USD 400 and wrote on the item description "brand new back pack." That fuckwad (whom I love, but damn bro, you grew up stupid sometimes).

    Anyway even at that price it's worth it, and it too has all the features you mention above + in X-Pac + with a contrasting interior color. I may have gone to their flag ship "store" (a tiny, tiny little store front) in SF and fanboy'ed for an hour or so before buying a small inside bag. And I may or may not have ordered two of their computer peripheral storage bags, one for me and one as a bribe/tribute to our head of IT....

    Anyway, ahem. It's the ultimate combo between a carry on bag and an (largish) urban commuter bag. /Shrill, and if anyone from Aer is reading this, a discount code maybe?

  • What American Fascism Would Look Like
  • Yeah, I use that sometimes, but it's really hit or miss. Thanks for the reminder though!

  • Russians bought up $6.3B in Dubai property after 2022 Ukraine invasion, report finds
  • It's all linked to Russian commodities, especially oil, and the dark fleet. No, I will not explain how I know this.

  • Google is losing it
  • I too am skeptical, but there have been so many of these the last few days... is it just a new meme?

  • Gen Z, please talk to me: what management works and what does not?

    I am an Xer who manages a small but crucial team at my workplace (in an EU country). I had a lady resign last week, and I have another who may be about to resign or I may have to let go due to low engagement. They are both Gen Z. Today it hit me: the five years I've been managing this department, the only people I've lost have been from Gen Z. Clearly I do not know how to manage Gen Z so that they are happy working here. What can I do? I want them to be as happy as my Millennial team members. One detail that might matter is that my team is spread over three European cities.

    Happy to provide any clarification if anyone wants it.

    Edit. Thanks for all the answers even if a few of them are difficult to hear (and a few were oddly angry?) This has been very helpful for me, much more so than it probably would have been at the Old Place.

    Also the second lady I mentioned who might quit or I might have to let go? She quit the day after I posted this giving a week's notice yesterday. My team is fully supportive, but it's going to be a rough couple of months.

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    Are lemmy.world and mlmym.org federated?

    Perhaps this is a dumb question, if so sorry! I don't want to move from here, but I do like the old-school layout over at mlmym.org

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