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10/10 kids books.
  • This is why I read genre fiction rather than literary fiction. Sure, you and your book club can look down on me but until you're reading a book that isn't a variation on a theme of "unsuccessful professional moves back to coastal small town to look after their mother who has dementia", yous can all get to fuck.

  • I didn't know where else to ask rule
  • I used to shave, you can do it often and avoid regrowth hell. Recently I started getting waxed, shaft, balls, butt. Really worth it, smooth for weeks, I love it, women love it.

    Yes it's painful at the time but not so much that you are tender walking to your car afterwards, it's a stinging pain and then it's done.

    Plus you get the fun of trying to have a normal conversation about upcoming holidays with a woman who is pouring hot wax on your junk, an experience I would recommend to anyone who hates small talk.

  • The second-hand embarrassment from seeing this hit like a truck
  • I think it was done with the very best of intentions, what it taught me is that you should either just go ahead and give up your seat or hang on to it, it's the asking that makes things worse.

    London transport introduced the little "baby on board" badges shortly after this, which simplified matters hugely.

  • The second-hand embarrassment from seeing this hit like a truck
  • I was on a packed commuter train once and in the silence this conversation happened

    Seated guy (loudly): Are you pregnant?

    Standing woman: Sorry?

    Sg: I said are you pregnant?

    Sw: No

    Sg: Oh okay

    The second hand cringey embarrassment of that interaction has stayed with me for about 25 years

  • Number of monthly active Lemmy users rising again
  • I've been here since the API changes at Reddit and the sub blackouts that followed, and I think it's becoming more interesting all the time. Back in the early days there was no point in refreshing the /all feed more than once every 4 hours as it just wouldn't have changed, now it's much more than that. The number of posts with actual discussions are increasing, and other than a few blocked users, communities and one instance, I like the people I'm sharing space with.

  • Does anyone else find that 4G+ on O2 is awful?

    I'm not 5G enabled yet so theoretically 4G+ should be my fastest connection speed. However, on O2 I find that it's effectively the same as having no connection at all, and often end up shifting down to 3G just to get some connection.

    This can't be right, I feel like I've forgotten a setting or something! Has anyone managed to figure it out, or maybe first does anyone else have the same issue?

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    Men: shopping with women

    Having trouble phrasing this, so in case it's not clear I'm not looking for casual misogyny thanks

    Having a debate with a friend about whether men shopping with women can be fun and I'm wondering how coloured my view of this is by me and my ex.

    I'd love to hear what makes a great shopping experience for you with your friends or significant others!

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    Accident on motorway - what's the protocol?

    I was driving round the M25 and there was an accident in front of me, I could still get round so I slowed down, put hazards on but drove past and carried on my way.

    What's the actual protocol in those situations? I could see all the airbags were deployed, there's nothing I could do for the people inside and for sure getting out on a motorway is a bad idea.

    But I feel like I should have done something different. Can anyone with knowledge enlighten me?

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    LOL? lol

    My son asked me if I would play league of legends with him, so tried it for the first time. So much going on!

    Firstly, how does anyone zero in on what hero they want to play, there are so many of them! I feel like it would take a year just to play enough to decide.

    Secondly, the purchase UI seems to have been designed to ensure that a new player can never understand it. I'm sure like all things it becomes clear over time but jeez, did a professional team really work on that thing?

    Anyway, 2 defeats from 2 games so far, I write to you from the lobby waiting for the third!

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    Music Mashups @lemmy.world TIN @feddit.uk
    Sweet Dreams/7 nation army by Pomplamoose

    Love this one, it all fits so well together!

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    Feddit UK and Meta

    Seeing as this conversation is going on everywhere right now, what's the approach to Meta going to be here on UK? Personally I'm all for defederation as soon as possible, what does everyone else think?

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    Playing engineer, ranking more slowly

    I started playing at the weekend with my teenagers, we've agreed to only play DRG when we're together so no-one goes off ranking up too fast which is what happened when we played Valorant.

    We've selected classes somewhat randomly, I'm playing engineer, they are driller and gunner.

    After about 3 or 4 missions they've got to rank 4 and I'm still on 3. I feel like they're getting more kills because they have more killy weapons (waaagh), is that what the rank system is based on?

    If so, have I chosen a class which is slower going or gets better late game? Or, does it not really matter as much as I think? I can see that ranking up means better upgrades, presumably therefore more kills so it could be a feedback loop.

    Overall we've found it to be great fun as well as a kind of chaotic, screaming mess!

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    Totally missed starter Saturday. Here's Doris today

    Fed yesterday, 2 hours at room temp and then in the fridge. She's actually got a bit bigger than I would like already so maybe straight in the fridge next time?

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    What's the age cut off for socially acceptable gaming

    So, hear me out.

    I'm a 47 year old guy and I'm not ashamed to say that I enjoy video games. I always have, from playing Head over Heels on a Speccy +2 to ESO and Valorant on my self built PC.

    Due to various life circumstances, I'm also on the dating scene and to most women I meet, around my age, video games are anathema. When I say that I like them it's usually meet with an "oh dear" or a "my son would probably love to talk to you about them, I find them really boring"

    I have two boys, both teenagers, both play all the time and sometimes we all play together (although they are better as they have more time to apply to games). Their friends are amazed that I will talk about games with them, that I know someone about games and that I play games. None of their parents want to talk with them about what is effectively their main hobby that they do all the time (big sad).

    So the question, there must be some sort of cut off age at which video games are no longer an acceptable pastime. Is it absolute age based (nothing after 35) or is it something to do with the progression of games into popular culture and people born after, say, 1986 will not see it as unacceptable?

    I don't have an answer, I just think it's an interesting question. Thanks for reading, let me know what you think!

    Edit to add: I'm not planning on stopping through peer pressure, just wondering about the phenomenon!

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    My boys got me a starter off eBay for my birthday

    Not sure how much the seller understands about the process!

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