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  • Theres a few types of changes that can happen to people.

    1: Change hammered in by the vicissitudes of time.

    This is stuff like getting used to your dead end job because it's comfy.

    2: Change foisted upon you by happenstance.

    This is stuff like becoming a parent or suffering a life changing medical emergency.

    3: Reactive change caused by inner turmoil.

    This is the kind of change that happens during a midlife crises or by an sudden inspiration that must be acted upon immediately or it loses its potency.

    4: Intentional change by measured reason.

    This is the kind of change people typically think of when they say people can't change. It's the hard kind of change and is rarely done in one's life and even when it is done it's the kind of windmill you can waste your whole life tilting at without ever slaying a single giant.

    Anyone can change the shape of their soul if they recognize its current shape and start making changes to it.

    Changing for the better is the real task.

  • Some things, people cannot change, except by getting worse. Someone who is suffering from dementia, certain personality disorders, etc., may learn techniques to cope and even thrive, but there's nothing that can restore lost brain function, or undo childhood developmental issues that fundamentally affect the brain.

  • I have certainly changed over the years. The change can be attributed partially to growing as a person over the years, and partially to major, life-altering events.

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