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  • Yeah I can recommend it and it's just two seasons so it's doable.

    Regarding the garlic, well, it doesn't bother them one bit. But they don't like to eat it because all human food tastes like soap or paper, they only like blood.

    However there are people using garlic and crosses against vampires out of superstition. And some vampires seemed to be afraid of crosses, but only because of superstition on their own side.

  • Morning coffee chat
  • I watched the series Interview with a Vampire. It has a nice gay relationship in it and it's pretty well written.

  • Risk
  • Colourblind people: Awww!

  • Safety PSA, please spread.
  • Take care

  • Safety PSA, please spread.
  • The first step is networking through secure communication, especially at this early stage where we simply can't predict what is or isn't going to happen. Don't underestimate the importance and value of communication.

  • What is a recent(or maybe significant) thing that you learnt to do(or taught someone else to do) that was pretty good and think more people should know of or try out?
  • Helping others when you need help, because eventually it'll become so easy that you can even help yourself.

  • how's your week going, Beehaw
  • Numb as f like every day and every year. The whole US situation didn't faze me, just like 911 didn't. If they did you must have something I don't.

  • how's your week going, Beehaw
  • Did you arrive yet? How is it?

  • how's your week going, Beehaw
  • What's MAID?

  • What are the taboo subjects?
  • What censorship?

  • What are the taboo subjects?
  • I haven't seen them I think. I was under the impression that it was something quite different from Lemmy, but still federated. Thx for explaining.

  • What are the biggest insanity-makers in our society?
  • Neverending obsession people have with sex. Yes, I get it, it's fun, and adventurous, and all those other amazing things. Can I just enjoy the rest of my life now?

  • What's a good response to someone saying "just change your gender"?
  • Sounds pretty low level to me. I would just deadpan drop my opinion in and let it be.

  • What are the taboo subjects?
  • Yeah that's right, I just use it with my friends now. Before I figured out that it was such a big deal to people I actually was considering using it for my website!

  • What is the funniest thing(story) that happened to you (let's keep it clean and at least PG-13)
  • I've done Halloween twice and each time it was funny.

    The first time I went as a zombie. I went all out with the makeup. Kids on the street would cry and run into the doorways. One guy came up to me and was seriously concerned. Then in the tram there was another zombie. We didn't acknowledge each other but we both stood there at the doors. It was hard not to laugh.

    The second time my roommates and I went as lizard people. Latex scales, green skin, lizard lenses, the whole deal. We run and scream through the city. Arrive at the party. Oh my god, nobody was dressed up!

    So we spent the whole night utterly green with yellow eyes at a normal party.

  • What are the taboo subjects?
  • Nah like it's their pov?

  • What are the taboo subjects?
  • Are those instances?

  • Removed
    Will it be Hungarian, German, or Russian style fascism?
  • Could you elaborate a bit? A book is too much for me.

  • This is one of the worst mornings of my entire life. I'm so sorry for everyone waking up in a fascist America today. This community is for you.
  • Just cycled past this town hall in Belgium. Also lots of churches here hang the flag, including the progressive trans one. In other countries too. In the smallest towns to the biggest cities.

    I know that it might seem a bit mean of me to dangle this in front of you, but I just mean to say that there's a way forward and hope.

  • What are the taboo subjects?
  • Ah like centrists are evil?

  • Privacy recommendations? Improving our community's tech literacy 🧿 (Updated)

    It's good for all of us to be privacy literate, given that things can take a turn for the worse in many places, or already are bad. There was a post a few days ago that highlighted how the vast majority of trans people rely on internet access 🤔

    I'll start by saying that matrix seems to be a solid solution for communication, and tor for accessing information. It's worth it to get familiar with them before you need them yourself, but also to understand them as a community so we can support each other globally 🏳️‍⚧️

    I am also wondering if any of you are familiar with getting around network restrictions. For example a DIY mesh network? 📡

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    Give me a sign 🌠

    Don't give up. Eat your breakfast. Be ready to open the door. Sometimes I just can't take it anymore. A shoe lace here, a shoe lace there, all tangled up and poor.

    I ruminate in the deepest point of darkness. In the eye of the singularity and at the heart of warmth. Thuds of fire strike upon the distant shore.

    I pull and I pull, but I cannot free my neck. And my face runs pale, and my experience runs thin. I gasp for air, and I let it in.

    An oasis in my breath. The orange of orange juice. And I, and I can be found in the blue sky, by the grace one cannot lose.

    When last night I lay in pain, I snapped this just for you, as the moon came.

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    Do you self defense?

    Hey lovelies, open question: Are any of you into self defense and do you want to share something with the rest of us?

    ❤️⚔️❤️

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    🌷 I was at this fry shop today 🌷

    I was at this fry shop today and the owner was teaching his new minions how to make what I had ordered. He said sir in the background. Well, I'm used to it, so whatever, I plopped my butt down and waited for that golden finger lickin' goodness.

    Eventually the guy awkwardly comes to the front through a door. Acts out of place. Says something nice to this person and that person, dunno what he was up to at first so I just did my thing.

    At some point he works up the courage and walks up to me and makes some small talk. Then he asked me my pronouns, so I'm like she/her. He apologized that he misgendered me before and called me adorable! 😭

    Now, just yesterday someone called me a trannie before riding off on his bicycle, but that's a story for another time. Safe to say I'm a fair Claire ⭐

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    What if car alarms were replaced with personal alarms?

    I mean, whenever I hear an alarm I ignore it, because I just hear it so often. But what if instead we used these types of alarms for real emergencies? For example a personal alarm to protect yourself.

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    Join the Trans Housing Network matrix room
    matrix.to You're invited to talk on Matrix

    You're invited to talk on Matrix

    If you are having issues finding housing as a trans person or would like to help others, consider joining this new matrix chat room.

    I’ve recently been helping some folks with their housing needs and thought that creating a network could be incredibly helpful. By pooling our resources, whether it’s sharing links, tips, or even just advice, we can support each other more effectively. ❤️

    We have a privacy-focused collaborative document to organize our resources and ideas. It'll grow over time. 📄

    Let’s make this a supportive space for everyone! 🌸

    Sharing and updoots appreciated! !bee flag trans emoji

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    What's your favorite snack?

    Mine is crunchy dark chocolate muesli with milk and a bit of sugar.

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    Update: I'm doing great!

    Hey just an update, as I made a post Thursday a week ago that was quite heavy, and I felt it would be unfair to leave that hanging.

    I've finally gone on hrt and I feel amazing. In a terrible kind of way. Like still totally depressed, numb, concentration issues and the like but in a feeling fantastic kind of way.

    Last Monday I broke a vase. I left it like that until today. I tidied up, cleaned up, moved furniture, cried cuz of music, hung pictures on the wall which I wanted to do for years, apologized to a friend, unpacked more of my stuff. I rewarded myself by going out and getting a pizza. I clicked with everyone it was fantastic.

    While I was biking home I realized that I knew I wouldn't be tired. I wouldn't have to retreat into a dark corner with my phone, pushing away hours hoping for my stamina to return.

    Hormones work. I still can't believe it. I still can't believe I am a woman. I still can't believe that I can decide what I'll do tomorrow. I still can't believe that this is what life is like for most poeple. Ya'll doing a bunch of drugs 24 7 essentially. And this goes on for the rest of my life? Omg

    Edit: this song

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    Craftyindividual, thanks for all your posts!

    Picture unrelated, I just liked it. It's from all over you, from 1997.

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    Plight of the Transbian
    medium.com Plight of the Transbian

    Why gay trans women tend to have an exceptionally insidious form of gender dysphoria.

    Click

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    Which trans characters from TV shows inspire you?

    For me:

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    What's something you've done that you're proud of?

    I'll start. Not to toot my own horn but I feel I'm at least partially responsible for getting a friend to see the value of romantic love, which she managed to find!

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    xilliah Elise @beehaw.org

    Hey I'm Elise! I'm a bike nomad and I'm developing a libre platform called Blossom, à la Second Life. I'm currently studying Français and I enjoy making people laugh 😜

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