Discussion Thread 🦊 Friday 23 May 2025
Discussion Thread 🦊 Friday 23 May 2025
Discussion Thread 🦊 Friday 23 May 2025
If you let Mickey go, I will end you.
I never let him go, he leaves my lap of his own accord - usually with a good kick to the boob as a farewell ha
Meow 😻
Half a glass of wine and I'm commenting on everything, sorry not sorry.
Chilly walk
Really enjoying seeing the world through your lens, you have a cool perspective.
I saw what you did there.
Thanks 👍
Actually one thing I wanted to share with you guys was that somehow this week I managed to read a book! I used to be a massive bookworm when I was younger, until one of my nervous breakdowns when I discovered that I struggled to finish one page of a book without my mind wandering and me giving up. But I found this book in a street library called First They Killed My Father by Loung Ung. I have a friend from my high school days whose background is Cambodian, so I was interested. He's told me in the past that his earliest childhood memory was when they left in a boat and came here. Reading that book, man it was gripping. The things that little girl and her family experienced, Jesus Christ. It had me enthralled how she survived, how much guts she had.
When I finished the book I gave thought to something else I read recently with a chart, about how most people in Australia and other modern western countries are amongst the richest 20% of the global population. When I think "richest" I usually think of the 1%. But apparently if you have a car, have a roof over your head, shower daily, can easily access food, turn on the tap and drinkable water comes out whenever you want it, have an education and stuff like that, you are among the world's richest 20%. It really made me think, you know? And it made me feel really grateful, grateful for my life and the lives my kids live. It made me realise that I am rich in a lot of ways, and it made me feel really thankful.
Enough of my ramblings, just wanted to share my mind space of this week. Have a lovely evening you guys!
Outrageous opinion follows.
Life for homeless people in Australia is usually better than life for average people in most of the world. They still have clean food, clean water, good medical care if they walk into a hospital, clean streets. True, they often have psych problems and need care. But they don't need to worry about open sewers and such.
I've always read books but what got me into biographies was a book called Two Pence To Cross The Mercy by Helem Forrester. It's about a twelve year old girl who basically raised her family out of poverty during the depression. She was smart and all she wanted to do was go to school. There's 4 books in the series. You feel for this young girl but that's not how she wrote the stories. She just did what she felt she had to do.
It's something that's never left me.
I loved that series. That and Janet Sandison's series called Jean In The Morning, Jean Towards another Day, Jean at Noon and Jean In the Twilight. We don't remember the depression, but it marked our parents/grandparents with huge trauma.
I love recommendations so just bought the audiobook. 🙂
Ok this sounded interesting, and a sample reading has driven me to download Libby and start on the eBook. Thankyou 🙂
I recently read The Revenant and The Particular Sadness Of Lemon Cake. Both were op shop finds.
The first is about a man left for dead after being attacked by a bear and his subsequent survival/quest for revenge. The second is about a girl who can taste emotions in food. Bit of a weird ending.
I still have part of the Memory Sorrow and Thorn trilogy to finish as so much was going on for so long that I got too tired to read.
The Revenant was made into a movie with Leo DiCaprio. Beautiful amazing movie.
Haven't read any those books at all but they all sound interesting.
The past few days I've been watching/listening to various renditions of The Hound of the Baskervilles.
I have come to the conclusion it's Doyle's version of a Gothic Novel.
Also that the Basil Rathbone version of Holmes, the most beloved version, is a lot different to the novels and other versions. He is kind and gentle, and the classism and racism of the novels is mostly gone.
The Lemon cake one sounds interesting, I might try that next.
I'm really happy to hear you got to finish a book. I'm similar in that I was a huge bookworm but struggle to read these days.
So it's a huge achievement!
You've inspired me to get off the usual screens and finally get started on a book I've been meaning to read for a while - Never Let Me Go by Kazuo Ishiguro. It's starting off really well! I'm going to go back to it after this comment, but...
I had a closer relationship to lower living standards growing up, still very much first world but things like your own patch of grass, the space to not live constantly surrounded by others, a relaxed way of living, wide open spaces and yes, having a car for many people, were all almost unattainable privileges. And just one generation removed my family came from a country that definitely had much less: I remember the constant power cuts, military checkpoints, curfews when I visited (and we were considered privileged back there, having migrated away from it all). Parents had their stories of lining up for rations, the bombings, the terror...
Yet I still often fall into the trap of the hedonistic treadmill and forget how absolutely, blinking, freaking lucky and rich I am to be where I am right now. It's easy to get caught up in how unaffordable housing is, etc, and it's not like those things shouldn't change, but holy shit most people in the world would still kill to be here in our places. We never, ever genuinely have to worry about starving... What a blessing.
And Peeler, you yourself have such a generous, creative, loving personality that is its own richness regardless of material wealth ☺️ the minis are blessed to have you as their mum indeed!
What a year this week has been
Amen sister
been a shit storm everyday since december
So true! I've seen super busy at work and a whole lot of stuff has happened.
New event for the Dog Olympics.. How far can doggo obnoxiously move its bowl down the hallway at 6:30am wanting brekkie.
Doggo is not being obnoxious, rather alerting you to a fault in the current system (I.e. lack of food)
Expressed as an absolute distance? Or as a percentage of the available hallway length? Also bowl quality and materials - ceramic would be significantly harder to shift than Temu steel/aluminium. And hallway floor covering - carpet or boards or rugs? Hard to standardise into a sporting event I think. Would be fun to watch tho.
PSA: The bloke down the road that grows the most AMAZING roses has just hard pruned his roses back to practically bare stumps. As has his chief rival further down the street. Hmm - gardening is on the agenda this weekend methinks.
It's pretty crazy how quickly they grow back though! At my old place in Epping, there was a rose bush right near the front door. One year I trimmed it back, as it was getting all tentacle-y and big. Then boom, it grew back bigger and stronger than ever, way more flowers, leaves and thorns. It was nuts!
It's not even June yet, they're going early. Hmmm. Maybe I should too.
I was wondering when to do that, thanks for the tip
since this might be a cold winter it's a bit early to prune
True. But I'm betting on this bloke knowing what he's doing, given how beautiful his roses are year after year.
Come into work, setting myself up and I go and make a cup of coffee for myself as pr ritual demands.
Someone's in there that I don't know. We say good morning and hello, then she ask says "Are you IT?"
My mood instantly changes and I respond with "No, I'm "admin"."
I turn my back and finish making my coffee in complete silence and walk out.
screams nothing like being stereotyped before 8am.
Now I'm moody.
Stuff you!
Christ, it's not only the racist assumption it's the violation of office protocol and basic social politeness as well. Triple bullshit.
Bet she's management
Yeah, it's the combo that really does it for me.
I've seen her around the place but I'm not exactly sure what she does, maybe she's in early childhood centre as I didn't see her in the staff workroom upstairs.
Why? Pretty sure shes just looking for help and doesnt know who to ask. Its not a personal attack, its a hopeful request.
I absolutely do not like people asking if I'm IT straight of the bat without proper introductions and names.
This is not the first occurrence and it's always asking if I'm in IT, that is not my occupation
I have a right to be pissed at being stereotyped and pigeonholed and also not being courteous enough to introduce yourself with a name.
I don't go up to people and say hey, you're the nanny right based on their looks.
That's not how things work in the workplace.
I would be livid.
and it appears it was a derogatory tone because Duenan doesn't seem to be the sort of person who would offended so easily
GROSS.
New photo dump has dropped:
I know that cheeky face. That's a JRT.
If anyone has never visited Perth, it's a must do. So beautiful.
These are so beautiful, thanks for sharing!! Please pat the doggo on behalf of all of us!
Beyoodiful. Lovely to see a big wetlands like that
pretty
Just notice a rental listing for the apartment below me... identical layout and also unfurnished. The asking rent is just shy 40% higher than what I'm currently paying. That has made my situation feel very precarious indeed. 💀
I worry so much about my fam and renting.
The young seagoons tell me they think they will never own. 😔
hate to tell them but the best chance for us all is to buy a big old house, share costs and learn to live together
5/10
4/10
6/10
5/10 today
8/10
7/10 feeling extra smort today
Also 5
6/10
6/10 I guess I don't know who owns Vodafone 😂
3/10
I've had my head in the sand a lot this week.
3/10
6/10 after a very rocky start.
Alrighty then. The phone calls and appointments have been made 🐸(Except for accessing a patient portal to do something - I’ll do it when I can figure out which hospital and what I’m trying to do again.)
Then I started on the paper clutter and it’s lucky I did… Opened some bills to shred and saw a large outstanding balance. Rang the water company and they’d stopped taking direct debits! That’s paid now.
Fridays are always such fun. Drinking, cards, music, singing, laughter. Saturdays. Don't talk to me.
Yesterday I had a flu shot and a physio appointment and I felt fine. Today, I ache all over.
This year's flu jab knocked me around the two days post injection.
Good news is that it works really well (at least for me). Already know a few people I came into contact with, are down with the flu, whereas I'm dealing with mild sniffles.
Well I’ve already messed up my sleeping pattern and don’t have anything much on tomorrow. The baby is all drowsy and tucked up.
Started tackling the dread twin peaks (Mt Washmore and Dishmore)
I saw a number plate yesterday I'm glad I didn't get. I hope the driver of car 1DD 1CK has a sense of humour.
$700 to get the locks changed.
Wish I was a locksmith.
Um unless you have a weird set up it's a $50 or less diy job to switch the barrel out
They had to change the pins and make a new key.
Shit. I could've broken in for a lot less.
Whoa! Might be cheaper to repair a window next time!
It's been a bit of a blur this week. Work's been really busy and I've been super tired and going to bed early. We were going to take the boss out tonight for his birthday but one of us got COVID so now it's been postponed. Dang it, the last time I went out for dinner was the last time I went out for dinner with my colleagues, which was last Christmas party! My youngest has a bad cold (not covid). I'm sitting here yawning.
Way too keen to go home and play some Expedition 33. Comeeee on time!!
How’s the game been for you?
It won’t be long now!
I love it so much but I suckkkk at parrying which makes some of the fights really frustrating. Definitely taking my time going through it, but really enjoying it! The music is just so freakin' beautiful, have found myself listening to YT clips of covers and official clips but also not wanting to spoil myself at all! (usually I'm a big self spoiler, so I'm proud of myself)
argh, I have been stuck at home unable to go to JBs to get a controller
but I am so there
My first foray into playing a PC game with a controller and I'm sold. Hope you can arrange one soon, I'm so excited to hear what you think about the game!
there is a problem, Bill is crying because I am feeding Ted where Bill can't steal his food
Can you divide Bill’s meal in two (if they eat at different times) and give him the second half while Ted eats? Or feed them at the same time?
A slow feeder or treat tower might also make Bill work for his food and stay occupied with his own meal longer instead of gulping it and going after Ted’s.
Or maybe if they aren’t already on low calorie or grain free food that’s an option.
Mashed pumpkin or hot water mixed into wet food is also a way to make them feel fuller.
More exercise for them might also help instead of reducing food intake so heavily.
It’s really hard. Breaks your heart to do it
he eats Ted's first then starts on his own
they are up and down stairs all day and pooped by the end of the day
He was scared off by some recent renovations that took down his wall, but now that things have calmed down he felt safe to come back again.
That is so stinkin' cute.
Good morning. 🙂
Good Morning Goonsie. Up with the early birds this morning? The fog welcomes you.
Morning!
Hi
1st chilli ferment on the way!
Doing anothery tm but with apricot and raspberries.
Aunt would kill me if she saw what I've done to her kitchen.
Goodnight all ❤️
Hello Friday night trauma dumping from my mother. Bringing the mood down, but I'll dance it off!
hugs
So glad you're here, Goonsie. Thank you!
Mine used Thursday night for that.
Love this for us. Oyyy.
Migraine. Fuck.
Ack, are you at work today?
Hope it doesn't last long and you feel better.
Thanks mate :) Starting to feel a bit better. Had to leave the house to do some shopping so eventually the headache started fading. Back to bed now I think.
CHEERS 🍻
Cheers Low Low 🍺🍺🍺🍺🍺
Cheers!....I approximately 1 and a half hours.
Cheers!!!!
I caved and got doughnut fries.
Chilling with music, games and Fluffball.
Beep Beep 🚚
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I am sitting boiling in this oodie , absolutely crazy weather
Have reached the stage of illness where I’m feeling better but still not ok enough to be at work. Hanging about the house has made me realise how much being at work stops the snacking. Do not need any extra fluff
same, it's very frustrating
For my birthday in 2 weeks I've thought up some good ideas.
A: Pub and gamble on some ponies.
B: Bowling, pub and gamble on some ponies.
C: The trots, drink, eat and gamble on some ponies.
D: All of the above.
Please note: All will happen when YL (formally known as the kid) gets her licence. Also be calling on some friends to join me.
D! Definitely D!
Ughh… I’ve spent most of my energy shredding papers instead of tidying for the inspection. Doing that while tired is going to suck. I did find some important paperwork and sort out that bill though.
I just want to get my shit back together
Don’t look at it as a bad thing, you did something productive, - the paperwork getting sorted. Still a win.
I'm impressed at how good you are at admin/paper work 🙂
This was a desperate clawing to get out from under it lol
Is anyone playing helldivers?
Hmm so I don't think I had the cold after all, I think I was going through a caffeine withdrawal - built up far too much of a tolerance and wasn't flushing it out of my system properly all these weeks, hence constantly feeling tired (and then trying to drink more to keep myself going).
After a full day of hell with the headaches, nausea and not getting out of bed, I feel heaps better - woke up clear-headed, without feeling lethargic (haven't felt that way in a while), naturally got out of bed at 8am, put away my dishes and having a light breakfast with a SMALL amount of coffee.
I can't wait to finish this thing so I can properly investigate dialling down my caffiene intake altogether, maybe switch back to green tea like I did years ago.
I slept through my alarms again. Permatired.
Cancelled a dental appointment I no longer need to avoid being charged. Now I have to ring and sort out a time for this inspection. And make a vet appointment for Solensia and vitamin b.
Melbcat just cried so I gave her extra pain meds. As soon as she gets drowsy I might see if it’s possible to wipe some oral gel onto her back teeth/gums and clip her nails.
Then back to the dishes and laundry. Also there’s tidying and sweeping.
My stomach hurts and I just want to go back to bed.
do some then rest 😘
Mini dog walk done.
Ran into a recently spayed doggo so naturally hambam tries to get it on.. naturally at the wrong end. Poor other doggo was a little confused.
On a lighter note, link to the Other Place but the pet names are an absolute scream
the disrespect is in not running the class in a way that everyone is treated equally
the young man is correct in his feelings he just isn't expressing himself well
regarding feedback in private, the tutor is disrespecting the class publicly so approach the issue publicly, choose your words carefully. This will also give others the opportunity to say their piece and will support you too
BUT, is she powerful, is she vindictive, will it be bad for you and others to speak up. Think carefully before saying anything, even in private.
Insane! I had a teacher who was similar when I was in highschool, she was the English/Lit teacher and you could get her to ramble for the solid 75min class if you asked how her daughters were doing. The difference was, she was also VERY commanding - NO ONE messed around in her class. She was no-nonsense, send you right to the principal, if you fucked around. I loved her. Hands down my favourite teacher.
I cannot imagine banging my fist on the table to emphasise how bored I was! That's some poor upbringing right there. In life, there is going to be PLENTY of times one will be bored to tears but cannot leave, we have to learn how to cope with that respectfully and calmly.
Ugh! So annoying for you! I'm sorry!