It's finally autistic people's turn to get a "I want an refund for my shitty kid" NYT OP-Ed.

the reality and pain of a subset of parents of children with autism who feel left out of much of the conversation around the condition.

If anything they are always dominating the conversation despite being in the minority of autism cases. I understand it's hard for them, but it's not all about you and you're talking over autistic adults who should be heard more.

Disgusting article

We have moved from viewing disability through a purely medical lens — as something broken to be fixed — to a social lens that puts the onus on society to accommodate it.

Ah yes, viewing disability as a problem to be fixed is very medical and rational and totally not based entirely on how your society is structured. I am very smart. It's not like someone with disabilities could ever be anything but a burden no matter how much society accommodates them, right? Stephen Hawking? Who's that?

I consider myself squarely left of center.

And yet, I think his remarks echo the reality and pain of a subset of parents of children with autism who feel left out of much of the conversation around the condition. Many advocacy groups focus so much on acceptance, inclusion and celebrating neurodiversity that it can feel as if they are avoiding uncomfortable truths about children like mine.

Once again we see how poisoning political definitions has created a reality where people believe they can call themselves left while believing textbook harmful right-wing ideology.

A Harvard-affiliated research center halted a panel on autism awareness in 2022, after students claimed that the panel’s language about treating autism was “toxic.” A student petition circulated on Change.org said that autism “is not an illness or disease and, most importantly, it is not inherently negative.”

"I, a NYT writer, know more about Autism than the people who fucking research it for a living. I am very smart and believe in science."

I understand why Mr. Kennedy is such a polarizing figure. I did not support his cabinet appointment, and I don’t believe his platform will materially help families like mine. I think his policies are likely to harm. I don’t think he was the right person to make those comments. But I was struck by his willingness to speak frankly about the painful parts of my child’s life. I don’t care if my child ever pays taxes — but I do care that she may never have the opportunity to work or live independently. She did not destroy my family, but I live in constant fear for her safety. I care deeply about her quality of life, and the limited options ahead. I appreciated his acknowledgment, because most of the time, families like mine are invisible.

The "center-leftist" siding with a literal Nazi and not realising the only reason he's acknowledging them is to dehumanise them.

My daughter turns 7 next month. I’ve long accepted that I may never hear her call me mom. I have grieved a million tiny deaths of the things I once assumed would be.

And there we have it, it's not about her child, it's about her. She became a parent because she wanted a "normal child" and now selfishly feels entitled to a "normal child" so she can fit in with societal expectations. The child is a mark of social progression to her, like a car or a home. When you have a child you shouldn't assume they will be anything you expected, they are an independent life that you are devoting yourself to ensuring their best life, not a pet.

The NYT really loves letting the worst people have op-eds dont they

When Robert F. Kennedy Jr. said in a recent press briefing that autistic children will “never pay taxes,” “never hold a job,”

How terrible that must be

Didn't take much for the "left of centrist" to side with fascist shit.

oh yeah it's consent manufacturing time

I live in terror of the day she outgrows cute, and I worry constantly that as she grows bigger, her world grows

What the fuck

Someone wanna fill me in on what else the Kennedy ghoul said that must be so controversial it's not included in this article?

ugh, ew

i wish these people would question why the inability to hold a job and pay taxes is what makes someone considered worthless

Parents are encouraged not to use words like “severe,” “profound,” or even “Level 3” to describe our child’s autism

yeah, i wonder why. what a fucking nightmare this person is, i feel bad for her daughter. i like pokemon, i'm not literally a pokemon. when we say this shit has levels to it, i don't think ranking and numbering them is what anyone meant.