Lemmy feels less anonymous than Reddit, because there are less users and its easier to be remembered. Similar to a small town where everyone knows each other.
But the advantage is that Lemmy allows Tor. 😅
I just wish the people in the subs I mod and post in would post some too. I feel like I am just posting for myself in those subs. Hell I am not a mod in c/trailrunning and it has like 170 members and no one post. I was the last person that posted. I know people are looking because someone is upvoting the things I post but no replies, no conversation. I don't know what to do to drive engagement.
I didn't know that community existed! Not sure what to post there yet but I'll join
At least we can all say that we are famous on the internet.
Even on big websites like Wikipedia there are only a few hundred major editors that write most of the content and they all know each other. On Youtube you tend to get to know everyone in your filter bubble as well.
Wait, reddit doesn't allow tor anymore? I remember posting a drug-related TIFU using tor and a throwaway acc, but that was years ago
I get around that problem by simply never looking at your usernames
I just suck at remembering names. I've started remembering people by their Profile picture more than their username
Me too, Steve, me too.
Stop freakin him out
same and i block the ml and the holier than thou accounts.
I honestly have no clue why are some instances so hated here, but I'm going to assume it's politics.
Meh, wake me when it has an i2p presence
As for posting stuff on the internet, I don't care anymore. I just try to not post stupid shit, and be decent to other people.
I’ve had the misfortune of posting on Craigslist Forums and then having at least 1-2 people shit on me or call me a moron
Lemmy is also not overrun by AI bots and sock puppets.
For now!
Everyone here is my alt, except you.
There are only two real users on Lemmy, its just you and me. Get pranked!
/jk
This
Edit: thanks for the gold kind stranger!
Wouldn't sock puppeting be much easier on Lemmy? Or does Lemmy implement a minimum account age system like Reddit does?
It would be pretty easily though, if anyone starts to think that it's important.
This is what they want you to believe!
this..
I mean, sure, if we're pretending you can't abandon accounts at will and make new ones elsewhere in the lemmy...verse.
The whole idea of "who" is kinda pointless.
Maybe I am the real Vanilla Puddinfudge. Maybe I'm not. What would it mean either way?
I'm a polish girl who tried to make friends on lemmy but that didn't work out too well
Username checks out
I love being able to have the small-forum feeling of my home instance but also feeling connected to communities elsewhere.
The place is a Village rather than a City.
your privacy is worse on lemmy. anyone can access all your comment and post upvotes and downvotes. your pms are open for server admins to read. both examples need to be fixed imo
Btw, your PMs being available to admins is the same on like every socmed. If you have to use lemmy as your secure method of communication (you shouldn't), at least use PGP, but lemmy isn't meant for that, use XMPP or Matrix or even Signal I guess.
People DM each other on Lemmy?
TIL that feature exists
So can you on reddit.
Your privacy is the same on either. But now, anyone can gain that information, not just Reddit’s investors and partners.
It’s what you write on these platforms that affects your privacy.
So, is it better to host your own instance?
Doesn't change the voting situation. Since your votes need to be seen by other instances, Lemmy needs a mechanism for federating votes. Since instances are untrusted, there needs to be some way of preventing manipulation. Thus, AFAIK, Lemmy simply shares your votes across instances, letting each one tally them up. As a side effect, any server admin of an instance you can interact with can also get a list of all your votes.
Man So much this.
I think should touch some grass because i may recognise more people here than in the village i am living in for like 2 jears
Username checks out
For some of the really prolific posters, yes. But there are also lurkers like me.
I doubt anyone can recognize me when I comment or encounter a comment I made.
Potentially unpopular protip: I've blocked most of the "prolific" posters. My entire feed was becoming repurposed memes from 2015.
I'm happy there are people out there dedicating time to keeping Lemmy "active" but that is not how I want to live my life.
User tags make recognizing people a lot easier. I see tagged users a lot. Voyager even keeps a running total of how many times I have upvoted and downvoted particular users.
There’s one user I have at like -30, tagged as a Nazi apologist. And sure enough, every time I scroll past them, they’re commenting some weird BS.
Sa PH lang kita madalas nakikita, san ka ba nagpo-post pre? 😃
Pakalat-kalat lang ako. Kung saan lang mapagtripan. 😅
Bihira lang din akong magpost kasi madalas wala rin naman akong masabi o maidagdag.
I'm just hanging around at random places. Wherever my fancy takes me.
I rarely post too, since I rarely have anything to say or add.
I will never forget you.
I don't think I've done anything that would warrant that, but thanks!
It's also not only about upvotes here.
Oh, you pickled moon dumpling.
It feels like Reddit felt twenty years ago
Reddit 20 years ago was mostly just Reddit staff
And me…
By 2007, reddit definitely felt pretty big to me. But like an overgrown small town maybe.
Its impossible to delete anything on the fediverse
I think the internet at large should be viewed this way and the Fediverse is no exception. It’s almost impossible to completely get rid of anything that isn’t under your direct and immediate control - i.e. your own personal email server. I don’t assume that Lemmy/Fediverse is any different.
That said, with the effort to be ”not Reddit” or just another social media platform ready to be potentially abused, focus should be placed on privacy and user ownership and their ability to control their data on the platform.
Its easier to edit than to delete. So if you want something gone you should edit it first
There's a chance your edits won't propagate to all instances though.
What happened to FlyingSquid
IIRC, they were having some health issues. It’s possible that it likely got too overwhelming, and they took time away from Lemmy to focus on their health.
I suspect they're also using an alt now to lurk/comment and not posting like they were. There's a user I saw that seemed to track, but could also be a coincidence. Hope they're good regardless of anyone's opinion, we're all still just people here at the end of the day
Oh 😢
They started being a huge asshole, and when called out for it just up and left.
Look at it this way, in a small town people are more likely to be kind and offer higher quality information when asked. The same things can be said about lemmy.
Agreed…Lemmy slightly reminds me of the early days of Internet forums/chatrooms/etc.
Yes, I’m old.
Definitely found that to be the case so far! Posted the same question to reddit and it was crickets there.
In game theory, a repeated prisoner’s dilemma can become a stag hunt if the probability of future interaction is high enough. Which is essentially what you’re saying.
who the fuck are you
Get off my lawn!
Yea I made a throwaway so nobody can recognize me.
Try doxxing me now 😉
(But seriously tho, there were weirdos that follow you around and mass dovote 🤷♂️)
Not just that, but they also use those tagging extensions in case they have an opportunity to bring up some shit from the past because they have nothing better to do than to keep tabs on everyone like it matters. Very normal and stable people.
Oh, you sour winter adult
Oh, you bitter elder of autumn.
Also, blocking people you don't like is far more effective.
It's OK
Oh, you salty spring chicken
Oh, you throwaway account nr 0430.
Oh, you lime and pepper avocado.
Some people here have a really huge effect. Guys like Stamets, The Picard Maneuver, and MicroWave, I see their posts all the time.
When I first joined, I saw The Picard Maneuver so often that I thought it was a community, not just a single user.
That bastard and the rest of the Star Trek people here! They got me watching Star Trek because of their damn memes. They were often funny even without context, what can I say?
I had literally never watched it before. I've now gone through TOS, TNG, Voyager, Lower Decks (save the last season), and I'm over halfway through DS9. Mother fuckers assimilated me... and I'm ok with it
You and me both...
Oh shit. I thought it was a community until now!
Some of them have major baggage
I guess we are all human
Oh yea, MicroWave feels like a half-bot tbh, no offense. Like I never see this dude made a single comment, only post articles. No wonder why that username is so forgettable.
I've chatted with him before. I think he just likes posting.
Oh, you farm fresh egg.
Oh, you savory smarch centenarian..
I see all of the same names in like every thread here haha. I remember y'all too. I know you are all freaks
Voyager enhances his effect by counting your votes on individuals. You start seeing people with big numbers.
I miss that from reddit enhancement suite. I like seeing who I interact with and who interacts with me. I occasionally browse comment activity here on mbin to get a bit of an idea of it.
I use Voyager but I don’t see this. Is it a feature I have to turn on?
You can find it in the User Tags section in the prefs. If you don’t see it, your voyager might be really out of date.
You have a [+3] for me! (Because I have upvoted you three times in the past. If I wasn’t clear about how it works.)
It’s on by default. The number should appear next to the username once you’ve liked one of their posts
Less anonymous, but more effectively pseudonymous =)
that's why i like it. on reddit, i'm just some other idiot smartass. on lemmy, i'm THAT idiot smartass. i've also done a great job convincing people i live in canada, while all the while i'm up here chilling in canada. fools, the lot of you.
Oh, you maple syrup monsoon
Ita kinda neat imo. It's like being in a small town and seeing a celebrity whenever satansmaggotycumfart joins the conversation.
Also because it allows anyone to easily stalk all your comments for some reason. Creepy.
I wanna be stalked! Someone, start stalking me right now!
I NEVER NOTICED YOUR USERNAME, BUT RECOGNIZE YOUR PROFILE PIC MF'ER! I'MA CRANK MY HOG AND GET IT WARMED UP TO START STALKING YOU RIGHT NOW BROTHER! AROOOOOOO!!!
I'm right behind you now. What you never said it had to be online
You should check out this company. https://www.punkwithacamera.com/collections/band-apparel-shirt-sweaters-zip-ups-etc/products/nazi-lives-dont-matter
Keep Punk alive boss man
Yeah, straight edge people still don't drink or smoke cigarettes, even though they're legal. I doubt anything would change regarding the straight edge crowd.
Would that make you fall in love with me too ?
that's some hella good music you make
Is that different than Reddit?
Reddit mixes everyone into the crowd
Nope. It's just that would be the first thing I changed if I were making a reddit clone.
I also like that Lemmy has a displayname field separate from the username and it allows you to make it cooler than just boring plain text. 😏
That's how I can always spot you in the threads lol You probably never even noticed me though. I'm trying to be inconspicuous over here
Haha you are definitely the person that came to my mind but my client only shows the plaintext username now so it's a bit harder to spot you
You just made me realize that my client only shows plaintext usernsmes now as well. Now I'm wondering what username was 👁👄👁 ... it always made me uncomfortable seeing it, dunno why
it allows you to make it cooler than just boring plain text
Agree.
People who find it annoying have grown old and boring, or are too young to have posted on a phpbb with a tacky signature.
Tryin' to make a change :-\
I'm glad connect blocks that annoying crap.
Oh nice, maybe it's time to switch after all. It's been a pending feature on Sync since forever.
I don't know a lot of people in my small town and I don't know you!
Some people actually use the tag feature so that they remember users when they see them again lol
Thats exactly why I am using lemmy exclusively for brand awareness
Oh, you fewer less users
From my experience there is only one poster. They are very angry.
Sorry, Lemmy is just me and my 500 alts
Who are you and how did you get in my sandbox?
You look at usernames? I've never done that here or on Reddit.
Even without usernames. There is some people i recognize by topic, opinion and the way they express themselves. If you spend too much time here that isn't difficult.
Even when it's some asshole who's always wrong, I try to remind myself that we're all helping to build a free alternative to corporate social media.
Doesn't help that its the same font size as the comments. Also profile pics, most on reddit don't use profile pics.
And also special fonts that sometimes make it stand out, bigger, and different color.
Like the yittit user @Kolanaki@yiffit.net (I think they moved to another instance after yiffit shut down?)
This is the way.
On reddit, I use RES to hide user names.
I call that a feature.
Sometimes it is nice to know oh that person is a jerk or that person is The PUG!
Can I be the guy that's known around town for pointing out that in the given context, it's actually "fewer users"
And yeah yeah, I know about evolution of language and common usage, and all that crap. But it really does just boil down to the fact that fewer sounds more elegant when the object is plural. ie: "There are usually fewer unexpected costs associated with new home ownership", vs "There is usually less unexpected cost associated with new home ownership" (Both are correct in their given context)
It's about how language rolls off the tongue. If we lose that we might as well grunt at each other draw pictographs with our own feces.
/end of rant.
This specific case isn't really to do with the evolution of language, more just ineffective linguistic prescriptivism. Some guy 200 years ago decided they didn't like how "less" had been used for the past millennium so they made up a guideline for what the preferred (like what you just said) then people decided to treat that as an actual rule. Obviously it's still common to use "less" that way even after a couple of centuries of people trying to enforce that rule, it's a good demonstration of how prescriptivism is a waste of time.
Strangely enough, in my experience many prescriptivists who rely on etymological arguments are fine with language changing for this one rule. Makes me think they never really did care about historic usage of a word.
It all just comes down to preference, but what a lot of people prefer is being able to express slightly different concepts clearly.
It's actually about whether the object is countable.
Water -> less water Cups of water -> fewer cups of water
It bothers me a bit, too, but American English is definitely evolving to replace "fewer" with "less".
Yes. But in 99.9 percent of cases, it also happens to be plural, so my eternal hope is that if it can be grasped as "If there's as 's', use 'fewer'", maybe more people would get it.