How many dates is it customary to wait to tell someone you're dating about Hexbear?

My girlfriend of 6 months asked “what’s Hexbear” and I immediately changed the subject

none. you don't need a date first to tell people about hexbear. the fact that you're not just shouting about us on street corners is revisionary

was waiting until my tenth wedding anniversary but I've put it off until the twentieth

I don't use my name on tinder, I use my fucking Hexbear handle and PFP

i told my partner about it a few months ago and now they bully me for being terminally online so proceed with caution

If you aren’t bringing up Hexbear struggle sessions on the first date, you’re a :LIB:

Hexbear posters disdain to conceal their views and aims. They openly declare that their ends can be attained only by the forcible elimination of all existing outdoor cats.

Get it out there immediately. It's in my tinder profile. I quiz my date on hexbear struggle sessions by text while traveling to the location of the date. If they fail then I just go home and get back to posting. Not gonna waste my time on s

this would not be a problem if you were true to your oath

I would never date someone who would like using this website. The people here, myself included, are insufferable enough without me waking up next to one so they can shout slogans at me and pretend to have read things.

I don't even tell my communist friends about Hexbear and one of them has taught me about transmaxxers and /tttt/

That's right, I consider Hexbear to be more taboo than transmaxxers and /tttt/ even to other communists

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If you're a Hexbear user, you have to let them know on the first date and definitely before doing anything physical with them or else you're tricking them

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Really depends on their political leanings and how online they are. The person I'm interested in has complained about tankies a couple times so if I ever reference something from here it's "This message board I use sometimes."

During orgasm it is customary to shout "Hexbear!"

I hope you're not thinking about violating your volcel pledge

The comments on this post is filled with cowardly libs, anytime I meet a new person I open with "Hello my name is Ram_The_Manparts and I'm a proud user of hexbear.net" because I keep. It. Real.

Do better!

You have to be upfront about it to give them the chance to make an informed choice about what risks they are and are not comfortable taking. If you wait too long to tell your partner that you’re a Hexbear user, it could feel like a betrayal.

You don't tell them, they find out and you apologize but then don't change your behavior

My friend works for Vanity Fair and she had to pass on my ChapoMod tell-all expose. Don't see her much anymore for some reason.

15 years of marriage, in the divorce proceedings.

Like bring up Hexbear unprompted? Do you think they would like Hexbear?

I'm dating an actual communist and I still haven't told him that I spend hours out of my day on a reddit clone for former fans of a soc-dem howard stern ripoff.

I actually use Hexbear as a dating app and only date people from Hexbear so they already know

They already know

IDK, all my dates come from horny posting on Hexbear. Meeting people in real life is reactionary.

I told a couple friends but I don't know if I would tell a partner unless they were a communist

I don't really use the other major social media sites. I browse a few niche subreddits but I haven't been on Facebook in forever. I don't use tiktok or Instagram. I am a fuddy duddy old man, I can't be bothered with that bullshit.

You never tell them lol

when you show them a post, reference one of our memes in conversation, or say something so batshit it only makes sense here. I call it "some website," "a forum," "a leftist forum," or "my communist forum" depending on who I'm talking to.

idk was with my bf for like 10 years before i told him about hexbear (when it was made) so

"hey babe check out this post, this one's doing the numbers" (57 upbears)

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The Hexbear users disdain to conceal their posting history

Related question: If two Hexbear.net users meet, whom should announce first? I try to practice Safe, Sane and Chapo.

You have already failed your mission by not leading with your conviction! You should have screened your partner for before considering them!

Serious answer: Idk, whenever it feels natural. Truthfully, it isn't something that has to be on your sleeve in "real life" even though it influences you. They don't necessarily have to know. I wouldn't consider it that serious.

Coming (regretfully) from LL/ETI I'm used to tabbing away in shame as my partner asks "are you browsing that hexagonal site again?".

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my partner has an account and lurks here

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You should warn them as soon as possible

I actually said I was posting on a lefty site one time and they didn't inquire further

You need to ascertain their position on the critical struggle sessions within the first hour.

You keep RL, Org Work, and shitposting separate. This post is deeply unserious.

What's so great about hexbear? I legitimately don't know.

I tell them immediately because I am dedicated to my volcel pledge

My ex caught me on this site once. I said it was a meme site and showed her one. That was it.

It's never okay to admit it unless you want to die a virgin.

If this isn't a bit: I'd never tell any of my dates about my specific social media usage. If they ask sure, but why else would I?

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The honeymoon.

I think after they have seen you poop

If Hexbear is such a big part of your life that you feel the need to tell people you're dating about it, you need to log off for a while.

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Usually 69

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