Exactly… it wasn’t until I lived on my own in more culturally diverse areas that I realized how gross it is and made my home a shoes off home.
I’ve also moved towards changing my clothes before getting comfortable in my own house. I don’t want outside clothes on my couch. This is a little unrealistic if you host people, but I still operate like that for myself.
Fwiw it’s situationally dependent in my experience. I don’t wear outdoor shoes in my own home, and I don’t know anyone who does. Visiting family or close friends, I probably take my shoes off for most occasions. A social gathering at someone’s house I don’t know well, then shoes definitely on.
i grew up disgusting and repulsive, a flea-bitten, mud-eating barbarian without literacy or language, but my direct and amicable exposure to the peoples of western asia and the far east reformed me greatly.
i now use a bidet and take my shoes off in the house.
I also don't know any French people who consider shoes off to be rude. Guessing it's regional. I think England and Northern France also have the type of climate where shoes off is just more practical
It's definitely not rude to go shoes off in Brazil. While most people keep their shoes on, they'll also default to taking it off when visiting someone they don't know the habits of.
From my experience in Germany, the Netherlands and Belgium, this is a terrible map lol. I've never been in a house that asked me to take shoes off in those countries. I usually do because I find it nasty as shit to walk around with shoes and hate when people do at my house (I pretty much only let friends with high shoes/heels during events, because that's something they are actively trying to do to their image). But the fact that those countries aren't blue or green is very suspicious.
I don't know who made the map, but at least where I'm from in Portugal, growing up I was always told to take my shoes off when entering the house and I rarely see other people not take them off when entering.
do they consider flip flops or slippers shoes? that's the only way in which a normal person might wear shoes at home in Brazil, and most people, as somebody else has mentioned here already, default to removing their shoes as soon as they go inside anyone's home - it's not even a class thing, everybody just does it
the closest I get to that is during the coldest days in winter when I might wear a pair of crocs to warm my feet, but that's already highly unusual and I feel incredibly weird doing it
i grew up in a apartment complex in a warm wet part of the US with carpets where nobody bothered to take their fucking shoes off. It was infuriating. I now have tile floors and I still can't get people to listen to me and take their damn shoes off but at least I can mop it all up on Sundays.
correct. if you want to do shoes on in a place that gets snow you pretty much have to have house shoes/slippers, which isnt the same as wearing your regular shoes indoors
I'm American and I've never been anywhere where people where shoes on in the house. But I'm from a swamp in the midwest so maybe it's a warm/dry climate thing or maybe a rich-person-with-maid thing?
i mean yeah, they're a prison for your feet. they're necessary cos 1) winter and 2) summer, since we done paved the entire world and it burns and 3) broken/pointy trash, so we put up with them.
which is another reason why shoes-on inside is super weird. dont you want to let your feet go free for a bit? no socks, no shoes, just rawdogging the air.
one of the best things about coming home is taking off my socks.
I can understand shoes on being a norm for some cultures, but shoes OFF considered rude? Looks like it's just Mediterranean Euros and their former colonies so maybe Latins are super sensitive to feet stank?
That's just how it be sometimes, I walk over to a friends house and realise I forgot my shoes and have to go back and get them, won't be allowed in otherwise.
i like how people say "you walk through piss and shit and wear shoes in the house!"
i can't say im walking through piss and shit very often so that's hilarious. also i have hardwood floors, if i had carpet i'd be more prone to taking them off. if i was just downtown where bums piss, i take those off.